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lessons through out my life





"When we honestly ask ourselves, which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions and cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wound with a warm and tender hand" - Henri Nouwen

"The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not healing, not curing.. that is a person who cares" - Henri Nouwen

"Never explain- your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway" - Elbert Hubbard

"A true friend freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defend courageously and continues a friend unchangeably" - William Penn

this post is for those who knew who they are

Dear Friends,
I never can say how glad I am to meet each and every one of you
You mean so much to me, although you may think otherwise.

There is a lot of friends out there,
It is until you lost your sense of humor,
you are broke and unable to throw them a proper birthday party,
you have premenstrual syndrome and been glaring at every words they said,
you suddenly cried for no reason,
you lost your ability to provide them with comforting words
you have better friends and thought you did not need them anymore

That is when you realize
Your TRUE friends
laugh at all your stupid lame jokes
say it is okay to have a birthday party at somewhere lame and do not ask for a birthday gift 
stay and make stupid comments to make you smile
be on the same bed when you cried but say nothing at all, better yet, they hug you without a motive to dig juicy gossip of why you are crying :p
they still pour their problems to you because they trust you that much
will be there to answer your calls, and to laugh with you even though the last time you talked to them is ages ago

This is the kind of friends I want, to stay in my life
to be the mak and ayah angkat to my kids :p
to be bridesmaids on my wedding

I am never warm to everyone
I am never good in that thing
I can pass kalau setakat first 2 minutes of talking to an acquaintance but make me stay for an hour
I lost words to say
I am never good in saying hi in a lift
even though dalam twitter, dalam facebook semua macam tegur je everyone
It is just me.
but my friends are idiots enough to stay by me. (sorry friends)
but to them, I promise, I will try to be the best of best friends ;p

Signing off.